Saturday, March 10, 2012

SATURDAY, MARCH 10




Revelation 21:4 And He shall wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there shall no longer be any death; there shall no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away.

These words of comfort as quoted from Revelation are often shared in a funeral or memorial service. They are encouraging, particularly to family and friends. They can be equally meaningful to one close to embarking on this final journey as they are words of encouragement and freedom. These words tell the dying, "The pain, suffering, and tiredness of your physical body are soon to leave; you are safe as you make the transition into eternal life with our Lord." Such encouragement!

Sadly, we are often uncomfortable being with those in their final hours/days/months of life on this earth. Yet, this is often a time when our community of family and friends can be so important as each brings some aspect of comfort, care, and compassion. It is in these moments we are united in the Body of Christ.

For a number of years, the two of us have been fortunate to be involved in visiting hospice patients in hospitals, nursing homes, and residences. These visits have ranged from where we might see a person only once before dying to where we are blessed in a seemingly long term relationship as we share weekly in new friendships.

As hospice volunteers, we have come to understand the privilege of being with those who are dying. We may simply be a quiet ministry of presence; we may get to know family and provide family respite at the bedside; we may be that new friend who listens to a person reflecting on his/her life. We have the opportunity to learn about lives we may never have known. We are blessed in our sometimes short lived friendships as each person we visit reminds us that life is all relational – between one another in this time, as well as between this world and the next.

Dear Lord, we thank you for helping us understand that no one need ever be alone while traveling through the final days in this world. We thank you for the honor and privilege to be witness to your power as some of the last visitors with our patients before they see you face to face. Amen.

Susan Bay and Sarah Krug

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